Nonbinary describes someone whose gender isn't simply "man" or "woman." That might mean both, neither, something in between, or something that moves.
Enby is just how you say "NB" out loud — it's the casual, friendly version of the same word.
Nonbinary is two things at once
This is the part that confuses people, and both uses are correct:
- A specific identity — plenty of people are simply nonbinary, full stop. That's the whole answer for them.
- An umbrella — it also covers a set of more specific identities, listed below.
So "are you nonbinary or genderfluid?" isn't really an either/or question. Someone can be both, or use one word on some days and the other on others.
Terms that sit under the umbrella
- Genderfluid — a gender that moves rather than staying fixed.
- Genderqueer — an older term, still widely used, for a gender that deliberately sits outside the usual categories.
- Agender — not experiencing a gender at all. Worth noting this is distinct from nonbinary: many nonbinary people very much do experience a gender, it's just not one of two.
- Bigender — two genders.
- Demigirl / demiboy — partly, but not wholly, a girl or a boy.
Each of these is somebody's actual word for themselves, which is why this site shows the specific one a creator used rather than flattening everyone into "nonbinary."
Is nonbinary the same as trans?
Sometimes. It's the person's own call.
"Trans" broadly means your gender isn't the one you were assigned at birth, which is true for most nonbinary people. So many nonbinary people do consider themselves trans, and some describe themselves as both — "nonbinary trans person" is a perfectly normal thing to be.
Others don't use "trans" for themselves at all, and that's equally valid. You can't infer it either way, which is why we never assign it.
Pronouns
Lots of nonbinary people use they/them. Plenty use he/him or she/her. Plenty use more than one set — "she/they" and "he/they" both mean exactly what they look like, and either is fine to use unless the person says otherwise. Some use neopronouns like ze/hir or xe/xem.
Two things worth knowing:
- A pronoun is not a gender. A trans man might use she/her; a nonbinary person might use he/him. You can't read identity off a pronoun, or a pronoun off an identity.
- Singular "they" isn't new or grammatically controversial — English speakers have used it for a single person of unknown gender for centuries, and every major style guide accepts it.
If you don't know someone's pronouns, use their name. That's always correct, and it's what our generated copy does when a creator hasn't stated any.
Nonbinary is not an orientation
Gender identity is who you are; sexual orientation is who you're attracted to. A nonbinary person can be gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual, queer, asexual — any of them. The two are independent, and a directory that mixes them into one list is telling you it hasn't thought about it.
Nonbinary creators on OnlyFans
Nonbinary creators are usually invisible on adult directories — there's rarely a category, so they get filed under whatever the site guessed.
Our nonbinary hub lists creators who describe themselves as nonbinary, enby, genderfluid, genderqueer or agender on their own profile, and each card shows the specific word that creator used. Nobody lands there because we assumed something.
Any listed creator can correct their labels or be removed within 24 hours.
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